As humans we all want something. It’s in our nature to want. It is absolutely normal. Some of us are the type to want reasonable things that we know that we have the ability to handle. Then there are those who want things that we are not equipped to handle. Here are a few reasons why you……
Don’t Ask For What You Can’t Handle!
It May Not Be For You
Just because it works for others does not mean it will work for you. It may look good when you see others in their moment but you do not see what’s going on in the background. Many people tend to make their craft, relationship, parenthood, etc; look easy on the outside but there are times where they may be dying on the inside. These days you will see people on Social Media living it up and some may even brag about their success and it will be a bald-faced lie. Don’t believe everything you see! Don’t try to keep up with the Joneses. The Joneses have family secrets you’ll never know about.
Timing Is Important
Being unprepared will cause you to be overwhelmed when the timing is off. When you rush things you may even ruin your chances because you may not ever get another one and that’s just being realistic and that’s just being realistic. Do Not rush anything. Take your time and let things flow. When you really want something and it is for you, you will get it at the right time. It may not be in your timing but that’s not a decision for you to make.
Knowledge Is Power But Experience Is Best
You may have the know-how but not the ability to execute. If you asked a few intellectuals, they could tell you how to build something they obsessively researched but when you ask them to do it, they may struggle a bit. Knowledge is power but it is not the end-all and be-all. There are those of us that are good at anything we try but it’s not something that is super common. This is why I like to test the waters before jumping in fully. Just in case I find out I don’t even like what I set out to do.
You Just Might Get It
This one right here is the killer. Have you ever wanted something so bad and when you got it you didn’t even want it anymore? Talk about a waste. Now, Imagine wanting something and getting it but then it ruins your entire life. That’s an exaggeration but you get the point. I’ve had this running joke about how GOD has a terrible sense of humor. You will literally get what you want but the price you will pay for it will be costly. Always be specific, those little gray areas are where GOD’S sense of humor likes to play in. It may not be funny to you at the time buT you may be able to laugh at it later. Believe me, it’s best to laugh about it.
I Guess This Is Where We End This Week
There have been times when I have wanted or asked for things that I couldn’t handle. In my adult years, I rarely ask for anything, if at all. Heavy on the RARELY! I will admit that I think about wanting more than what I have but then I remember that I am not ready for what I am asking for. It’s so easy to want but when you actually get it. You may sometimes sit there with it in your hands, clueless as to what to do with it. It’s better to ask for things in increments. It’s kind of like building the ultimate product, piece by piece. That way, should anything go south, it was a tiny gamble that you prepared for. And again, just because it looks easy, does not mean it is. Everything takes work. EVERYTHING!
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