*Before you get into this post, I want you to know that I have been sitting on this one for a while. It continuously pops up like an annoying sibling that won't go away when you are busy. So, here goes. Don't shoot the messenger. Take it up with God* I know this is going to be a hard one for some of you. But I want you to hear me out. I’m telling you this out of love. I’m telling you in hopes that it will make you stop and think about it. I want you to think about what I say because it needs to change but it cannot until you’re ready for it.