When Everything You Touch Crumbles
There are so many times when we go through storms. Many of us may have even experienced times when everything we touched crumbled. It may feel like the worst thing in the world. There are some who don’t even care. Believe me. I’ve watched people destroy things over and over and over. Just to move on to the next thing and destroy that too. It wouldn’t matter as much if they weren’t destroying other people’s things and lives. If you want to invite destruction into your life, keep it within your life, DO NOT bring it to others. Now, let’s not focus on those who don’t want to change. Let’s focus on those who want to receive the help they need to make changes in their lives. What do you do when everything you touch crumbles?
What Do You Do? Here Are A Few Steps
Stop & Evaluate
Stop everything that you are doing and take a deep breath. Let’s evaluate everything that is going on in your life and everything that you are doing. There is something that you are doing that you’re not even supposed to be touching. This is where you pinpoint what that is. While you sit there and think about it. And I mean, really evaluate your life. It will slowly come to you. Dig deep If need be. Have you figured it out yet? If nothing comes to mind, just move on to the next step.
Pray, Meditate, Focus
You will need to Pray, Meditate and Focus on the task at hand. What is the task? Ending the constant destruction in your life. I’m not saying that your life will become all butterflies and rainbows because there will always be storms to prepare you for the next level. What I am saying is, you can end the destruction that is caused by YOU. The unnecessary destruction. Your main focus in this step should be on receiving instruction and guidance. Once you have focused and zoned in on the issue, you will need to learn how to make a change.
Make That Change
There’s a song by the late and great Michael Jackson that says, “I’m starting with the man in the mirror. I’m asking him to change his ways”. He goes on to say, “If you wanna make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make the change”. Your life will not change until you change. In order to change, you must first change your mindset. Nothing will change when you’re still thinking the same way because you will continue to do the same things. You will need to become self-aware and begin holding yourself accountable for your actions. You can’t change anything when you’re blaming everyone else. Let’s practice pouring more care and attention into everything that we do. To CHANGE something is to DO something. Without action, there is no change. These are the recipes for change.
Don’t Stop. Keep Going!
When you change for the better, you must keep working. It is not a one-time thing that cancels out anything else you do in the future. Change is continuous. It Is Growth. You never want to get comfortable and stop growing. Even the oldest men and women choose to grow because with growth comes wisdom.
I Guess This Is Where We End This Week
When everything you touch crumbles, it is a sign that what you are doing is not right. Now, let’s also keep in mind that there is ALWAYS a lesson. When things crumble, it makes a room for something greater. But greater will never come if you keep doing the same thing and refusing to learn the lesson so that things can change. Sometimes, the only way that God can get our attention is through chaos and destruction. It’s crazy, right? It’s also crazy that we tend to ignore the good things but the bad is always the loudest thing to us. It’s crazy that some of us will even blatantly ignore chaos and destruction because we tend to dwell in it.
I don’t know about you, but I don’t want anything else to be destroyed in my life. I’m ready to go to the next level where there is rebuilding and healing. Are you ready for the next level?
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